Few months back, I wrote about the perceived benefits of a dress code; and that they may just be perceived and not as real as they should be. You can read that post here. Now, I am elevated to being a Teaching Associate, and I am married too. So, I think–considering that I have a right to evolve, giving me a tolerance to play with my opinions–I have changed my opinions a little (or may be a lot!).
Since the news came to me that I was on-rolls as a Teaching Associate, it was a feeling like the dream-come-true. I am set on the path of becoming a professor one day. I recalled what Prof. Suresh Satapathy once said to me, “Vinay, you can sacrifice food for a day, but do not sacrifice your dress code because it tells others who you are, and can get you what you want“. So correct! The first thing I did hence was to try and look like a professor, i.e., check the dress code that a professor must follow. Some internet research; and I have concluded that chinos, cotton/terry cotton shirt with a decent blazer, with a tie, formal shoes and socks matching the trouser should fit me into that looks I was looking for. I am pretty close to getting that full look (I miss my tie!).
Now, would you believe it? In my last post, I expressed my woes that teachers forced students to follow a dress code. Surprisingly, when I am following it as a Teacher, there seems to be that initial resistance to it from the community. While one professor softly suggested that I might be giving ideas to the institution to force a dress code for faculty, others had a few comments to pass, and my co-scholar (no comments about him, really, and please!) asks me why I should follow it when others don’t. Frankly, I do not have an answer to any of those comments/questions (should I even answer?), but I understand the suggestion. Having said all that, I recall the conversation I had with another professor who expressed his views, “Education System in India mostly runs in an unprofessional setting“. I think these comments/questions are a part of that mediocrity education in India lives in. So, even if it is a painful experience, carrying a dress code, I think I should still follow it by heart; so that, at least I might be suggesting how one should look.
I do not commit to change anything, nor do I commit to a particular style of living (not even the dress code!). But for sure, I seem to understand how things are moving, and how I can try to change them a little. Let me see how long I can carry myself like this.